Flattery will get you everywhere
Angie knows how to get me. We had been talking about me possibly doing an honest seduction workshop with her again in Philly. I had been unclear if i could make it, she had been clear that i would be her first choice of co-presenters (we had done it before together and it worked well and i have done it more times than anyone).
After a while she just decided to run the announcement for the workshop saying that i was coming. And by doing so dramatically increased the chances that i will do it with her.
Though it is clear that this particular technique of influencing a lovers behavior is hardly honest.